I feel it is fine to voice your opinion in a nice way, don;t you? I have had people say to me, cuz I am nice?

"I think you ought to reconsider!"...I just say politely. "It is my right to vote for whomever I want. I felt right then and there we would NOT EVER BE FRIENDS. She doesn't give the other person the RIGHT to vote for whomever they choose. What is your take on controlling people....even though I know she would say.."I'm NOT controlling, but she is.